By Jaunai Staton, LAMFT When It Comes To Your Parents, You Feel Stuck, Unfulfilled, and Alone Do you find yourself constantly trying to get your parents’ affection, but it never feels like enough? These relationship patterns can be confusing and painful, often leaving you wondering what you’re doing wrong. Maybe you’ve felt dismissed or misunderstood moreContinueContinue reading “Narcissistic Parents: Recognizing the Patterns and Reclaiming Your Emotional Health “
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Non-Negotiable Needs for Black Women in Therapy
By Jaunai Staton, LAMFT Overcoming the Stigma of Therapy in the Black Community For many Black women, the cultural stigma around mental health can make seeking help feel daunting. With the weight of work, family responsibilities, and financial pressures, therapy might seem like just another burden especially when looking for a black female therapist. TheContinueContinue reading “Non-Negotiable Needs for Black Women in Therapy”
The Hidden Costs of a Lack of Intimacy: Understanding the Strain on Your Relationship
By Jaunai Staton, LAMFT Does Your Relationship Feel More Like Roommates And Not Partners? Living in New Jersey and struggling to connect intimately with your partner? That distance you’re feeling – where you’re both in the same room yet somehow miles apart – is more common than you might think. Many couples in NJ faceContinueContinue reading “The Hidden Costs of a Lack of Intimacy: Understanding the Strain on Your Relationship”
5 Hidden Forms of Romantic Betrayal: The Third Parties You Didn’t See Coming
By Jaunai Staton, LAMFT Do You Feel Like Your Partner Is Hiding Something From You? You’re not alone. Trust is the foundation of any relationship, and when it’s eroded—whether by neglect, resentment, or clashing beliefs—it can hurt just as much as cheating. You might notice your partner spending more time on hobbies that don’t includeContinueContinue reading “5 Hidden Forms of Romantic Betrayal: The Third Parties You Didn’t See Coming”
Surviving Infidelity: A Therapist’s Letter to the Partner Who Cheated
By Jaunai Staton, LAMFT Dear Reader, Have you found yourself lying awake at night, weighed down by the consequences of your actions? Or perhaps you’ve felt the pain of seeing your partner hurt because of what you’ve done. I understand if you’re struggling right now, especially if you’ve hurt your partner through infidelity. It’s naturalContinueContinue reading “Surviving Infidelity: A Therapist’s Letter to the Partner Who Cheated”
When the Same Argument Keeps Happening, Try EMDR
By Jaunai Staton, LAMFT Do you and your partner find yourselves caught in the same argument over and over again, with no real resolution in sight? Ever catch yourself thinking, “I’m so tired of repeating myself,” or “Why are we having this argument again?” You’re definitely not alone in feeling this way. It can beContinueContinue reading “When the Same Argument Keeps Happening, Try EMDR”
Recognizing Common Relationship Issues: A Guide to Identifying Problems (PART 2)
By Jaunai Staton, LAMFT Normalcy vs. Dysfunction in Relationships Everyday conflicts, the kind you can work through with effective communication, are totally normal in any relationship. Figuring out the difference between the usual ups and downs versus dysfunction boils down to a few things I mentioned in Part 1 of this blog: communication, emotional connection, priorities,ContinueContinue reading “Recognizing Common Relationship Issues: A Guide to Identifying Problems (PART 2)”
Recognizing Common Relationship Issues: A Guide to Identifying Problems (PART 1)
By Jaunai Staton, LAMFT Caught in a cycle of non-stop arguments? Feeling lost in a complicated relationship? Are you experiencing loneliness even with your partner? If these thoughts frequently cross your mind, you’re not alone in wondering, “What’s wrong with my relationship?’’ Confronting Issues With Your Partner Isn’t Easy Your relationship feels like a roller coaster,ContinueContinue reading “Recognizing Common Relationship Issues: A Guide to Identifying Problems (PART 1)”
The Emotional Trauma Of Being Cheated On
Infidelity is like a relationship storm. Its impact can deeply affect your mental well-being. If you’ve faced infidelity, you probably know the jumble of emotions it stirs up. This emotional rollercoaster is entirely normal. Let’s bring more awareness to infidelity and how it impacts our mental health. Join me in exploring the nuances of infidelityContinueContinue reading “The Emotional Trauma Of Being Cheated On”
Effective Conflict Resolution Techniques: Tips from a Relationship Therapist in New Jersey
In any relationship, conflicts are inevitable. However, how couples navigate and resolve these conflicts ultimately determines the health and longevity of their partnership. By mastering effective conflict resolution skills, couples can strengthen their bond, deepen their understanding of each other, and foster a more harmonious relationship. By Jaunai Staton, LAMFT You and your partner may haveContinueContinue reading “Effective Conflict Resolution Techniques: Tips from a Relationship Therapist in New Jersey”