All too often we’re faced with the stigma of mental health when we talk about going to therapy. And it’s time to end the stigma.
If you disclose to a loved one that you’re seeing a therapist, you might be met with confusion, criticism, and/or scrutiny. This can leave you feeling embarrassed and ashamed. After you finally mustered up the courage to talk about your mental health, you walk away feeling worse than before.
After telling someone about your plans to improve your mental health with therapy, they might say:
- “You seem fine to me.”
- “A therapist is just going to take your money.”
- “Can’t you try something else?”
- “Therapy is a bunch of crap.”
- “Just give it time.”
If you’ve ever heard these responses before, you’re not alone. When you tell someone you’re seeking help for depression, anxiety, or low-self esteem, you might be worried about what others will think of you. You may feel judged for seeking help. Some might even tell you that it’s “weak” to talk about your problems with a professional therapist. In turn, you may not end up getting the help that could significantly change your life for the better.
The Truth Is That Mental Health Is an Important Aspect of Overall Well-Being
While caring for the physical body is often seen as an immediate and legitimate concern, caring for the mind is not viewed in the same way. However, it should be.
The mind is a part of the body, and therefore should be cared for with the same concern that would be given to a heart, kidney, or liver.
Even more, when we experience prolonged depression, anxiety, or anger, it can cause physical ailments to manifest themselves. Just one example of this is how negative mental states can increase the risk of heart disease or worsen existing heart issues (Karki & Mahara, 2022).
People often race to a physician’s office when they feel troubling physical symptoms such as chest pain, dizziness, or a rapid heart beat. Likewise, when we feel sadness, depression, anger, or anxiety, we should consider seeing a therapist. Just as the various parts of our physical bodies need periodic testing and evaluation, the mind needs to be cared for and monitored, too. This is called the mind-body connection.
The Mind-Body Connection Is So Important For Our Well-Being
We should try our best to be in tune with it. As we periodically examine our physical symptoms to make sure we aren’t coughing, sneezing, or wheezing, we should also be checking our mental health to see whether or not we are:
- Isolating
- Obsessing over intrusive thoughts
- Feeling depressed
- Worrying excessively
- Struggling with day-to-day functioning
We should also be checking in with ourselves and how we are feeling on a regular basis. If you’ve never tried checking in with yourself mentally, here are some tips to get started:
- Ask yourself how you’re (really) feeling today.
- Think about anything that could be holding you back from living the kind of day you envision for yourself.
- Imagine your best life. What’s missing? Be specific.
I encourage everyone to reflect on their mental health and think about what could be better in your life. Examine your thoughts, hopes, dreams, fears, and feelings on a regular basis. Perhaps you want to function at your best but you’re not sure how. Remember that you don’t have to start that journey alone. When you feel less than your best, remind yourself that “it’s okay to see a therapist”!
If You’re Ready to Take the Next Step in Your Journey, Start Therapy in Metuchen, NJ
You don’t have to face your mental health issues alone. You deserve support in addressing and overcoming the concerns affecting you most. Our team of caring therapists would be happy to offer support from our Metuchen, NJ-based practice. You can start your therapy journey by following these simple steps:
- Contact us to request a phone consultation
- Meet with one of our caring therapists
- Start living the life you want to live
Other Services Offered With Mindful Connections Counseling
We understand that you may face concerns related to a number of mental health concerns. This is why our team is happy to offer support with a variety of mental health services. We are happy to offer both in person and online therapy. Mindful Connections Counseling offers anxiety therapy, trauma therapy, and grief counseling. Other services offered include therapy for disordered eating, mind body wellness, and cannabis-informed therapy. We are happy to offer support for both individuals and couples alike. We also offer support via child therapy, teen therapy, family therapy, and parent coaching. Feel free to visit our blog or FAQ for more helpful information!
References:
Karki M, Mahara G. Heart diseases, anxiety disorders, and negative thoughts.
