By Jaunai Staton, LAMFT When It Comes To Your Parents, You Feel Stuck, Unfulfilled, and Alone Do you find yourself constantly trying to get your parents’ affection, but it never feels like enough? These relationship patterns can be confusing and painful, often leaving you wondering what you're doing wrong. Maybe you’ve felt dismissed or misunderstood moreContinue reading "Narcissistic Parents: Recognizing the Patterns and Reclaiming Your Emotional Health "
Why Pet Loss Can Be Harder Than Losing A Person You Love
Pet Grief in NJ The day we lose a pet, it feels as if the world shifts beneath our feet. The empty food bowl, the silent morning routine, the leash that hangs untouched - each detail carves a deeper hollow in our hearts. For many, this grief cuts deeper than they ever expected, sometimes evenContinue reading "Why Pet Loss Can Be Harder Than Losing A Person You Love"
Understanding Codependency in Young Adults: Signs, Causes, and Recovery
By: Taylor Zanon, LAMFT (she/her) As you may be wondering, I’ve heard about codependency on TikTok but never truly understood what it meant. There have been many interpretations and misconceptions about codependency, so let’s break it down. Simply put, codependency happens when one person's well-being becomes solely wrapped up in another person's life or problems.Continue reading "Understanding Codependency in Young Adults: Signs, Causes, and Recovery"
7 Ways Play Therapy Can Help Your Child: A Parent’s Guide to Therapeutic Play
By Taylor Zanon, LAMFT Is your child struggling to express their emotions? You're not alone. As parents, watching our children battle with anxiety, sadness, or frustration—especially when they can't find the words to tell us what's wrong—can leave us feeling helpless. But there's hope, which comes in a form that speaks your child's natural language:Continue reading "7 Ways Play Therapy Can Help Your Child: A Parent’s Guide to Therapeutic Play"
To The Woman Who Can’t Stop Hating Herself
By Melody Smith, LPC Dear Friend, I want you to take a moment and breathe. You’re in a tough place right now, and it’s okay to feel lost. It’s hard to carry the weight of self hatred. I want you to know that you’re not alone in this struggle. You talk down to yourself constantly.Continue reading "To The Woman Who Can’t Stop Hating Herself"
Non-Negotiable Needs for Black Women in Therapy
By Jaunai Staton, LAMFT Overcoming the Stigma of Therapy in the Black Community For many Black women, the cultural stigma around mental health can make seeking help feel daunting. With the weight of work, family responsibilities, and financial pressures, therapy might seem like just another burden especially when looking for a black female therapist. TheContinue reading "Non-Negotiable Needs for Black Women in Therapy"
The Hidden Costs of a Lack of Intimacy: Understanding the Strain on Your Relationship
By Jaunai Staton, LAMFT Does Your Relationship Feel More Like Roommates And Not Partners? Living in New Jersey and struggling to connect intimately with your partner? That distance you're feeling – where you're both in the same room yet somehow miles apart – is more common than you might think. Many couples in NJ faceContinue reading "The Hidden Costs of a Lack of Intimacy: Understanding the Strain on Your Relationship"
To The Woman Who Can’t Stop Hating Her Past
By Melody Smith, LPC Do memories from your past still tug at you in ways you didn’t expect? If so, I hope the thoughts in this letter will resonate with you. Many of us carry the weight of our histories, focusing on the pain we’ve felt and the regrets we hold. Your past experiences feelContinue reading "To The Woman Who Can’t Stop Hating Her Past"
5 Hidden Forms of Romantic Betrayal: The Third Parties You Didn’t See Coming
By Jaunai Staton, LAMFT Do You Feel Like Your Partner Is Hiding Something From You? You’re not alone. Trust is the foundation of any relationship, and when it’s eroded—whether by neglect, resentment, or clashing beliefs—it can hurt just as much as cheating. You might notice your partner spending more time on hobbies that don’t includeContinue reading "5 Hidden Forms of Romantic Betrayal: The Third Parties You Didn’t See Coming"
Rethinking Divorce (PART 2): Could It Lead You to a Brighter Future?
By Taylor Zanon, LAMFT In Part 1 of our series, we explored the common myths that often keep families trapped in uncertainty about divorce. We discovered that contrary to widespread beliefs, children can thrive after divorce, co-parenting relationships can be positive, and families often find renewed happiness and stability on their new path. We alsoContinue reading "Rethinking Divorce (PART 2): Could It Lead You to a Brighter Future?"
